Adjusting to a New Psoriatic Arthritis Diagnosis
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- Stay engaged, not isolated — Resist the urge to withdraw, and lean on people you trust.
- Build a support network — Connect with others who understand PsA, in person or online.
- Practice emotional self-care — Acknowledge your feelings without letting them take over.
- Recognize the warning signs — Know when mood or sleep changes call for extra support.
Learning you have psoriatic arthritis (PsA) can be hard – even if you’ve had psoriasis for years. When it’s a total surprise, you have challenges you never expected. You have to learn to live with an illness that may never go away. You deal with pain, concerns about your looks, changing your habits and people treating you differently. You’ll also be dealing with doctors, treatments and medicines. Even though you may feel overwhelmed, know that you are not alone.
Here are four ways to prepare for the long haul and live your best life with PsA.
Stay Engaged
In the face of hardship, you may want to pull away from everyone. But don’t give in to that feeling.
It’s natural to want to be alone, worry and hide your feelings. All of your emotions are ok. Share those feelings with someone you trust. If you isolate yourself and spend your time thinking about pain and worrying about the future, matters will only get worse. Try not to give in to negative thoughts.
Build a Support Network
Connecting with people can help you get through tough times. This doesn’t just mean friends and family. Sometimes the best support people are those who also have PsA.
You can find with them through an online community or a local support group. The Arthritis Foundation offers both through the LiveYes! Network. Connect Group members lift you up when you need it and give you tried-and-true tips about life with PsA.
You can get a two-fold benefit by combining physical activity and community. Participate in Walk to Cure Arthritis or Jingle Bell Run. Or find a workout buddy in our Cycling or Movement Matters Connect Group. Find more information through your local office.
Practice Emotional Self-Care
A phrase you may hear from people in the PsA community is, “You are not your disease.” This can be hard to believe when you don’t feel like yourself. But you’re the same person you always were; you just have new challenges.
Some advice from those in the know:
- Acknowledge and accept your feelings, but try not to let them weigh you down.
- Ask for help when you need it. If you don’t want help, it’s ok to say “no.”
- You may not be able to fully control your disease, but you can control how you think, react and feel about it.
Recognize the Warning Signs
Many people with PsA struggle with sleep and mood. This makes sense, especially when you have sore joints and itchy skin. But that’s not the whole story. Your body and brain work together. The inflammation that causes your joint and skin symptoms can trigger changes in your brain, too. These changes can affect your mood.
If you are feeling low or can’t sleep, try exercise, stress relief and emotional support from friends and family. If they don’t help, ask your doctor for a referral to a mental health professional. Feeling better emotionally will give you physical benefits as well.
The Arthritis Foundation is here to provide support and information on your journey. Get connected with others, find your local office or call our Helpline.
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Arthritis Foundation Editorial Staff View full profileKey Facts
- Psoriatic arthritis affects both joints and skin
- Isolation can worsen PsA symptoms and mood
- Our Connect Groups provide peer support
- Inflammation can trigger mood and sleep changes
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