Making new friends and maintaining existing relationships grows
increasingly
harder as we grow older. Work and family discourage us from forming new friendships and going out socially. Add arthritis to the mix and you have
a whole new hurdle to leap. Pain and fatigue can make it hard to keep social
engagements. Physical challenges and deformities can make you self-conscious or
shy around other people.
You know it can be frustrating to try to explain your
disease to potential new friends – not to mention potential dating
opportunities. How do you explain that arthritis doesn’t only affect older
people or that you can’t drink alcohol because of medication?
Despite the challenges, you shouldn’t let arthritis keep
you from enjoying an active social life. The Arthritis Foundation can help you
learn how you can find friends that already understand, how to talk to others
about your disease and how to handle intimacy issues.
Forming meaningful relationships is an important part of
managing your disease. Friends can help you combat depression, distract you from
pain and support you when you are having a flare. Research also shows that a
strong support system can actually improve your physical health.